{"id":1041,"date":"2015-06-10T09:58:12","date_gmt":"2015-06-10T09:58:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/?p=1041"},"modified":"2020-01-18T08:55:06","modified_gmt":"2020-01-18T13:55:06","slug":"5-things-not-to-do-at-your-book-reading","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/5-things-not-to-do-at-your-book-reading\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Things *Not* To Do At Your Book Reading"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m just back from reading from my memoir\/travelogue <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/My-Germany-Returns-Parents-Escaped-ebook\/dp\/B003VS0H10\/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1433834289&amp;sr=8-4&amp;keywords=my+germany+in+kindle\"><em>My Germany<\/em><\/a> in Windsor, Ontario.\u00a0 I was at a fundraising event for <a href=\"http:\/\/bookfestwindsor.com\/\">BookFest Windsor<\/a> and people asking me to sign books afterwards said they enjoyed it especially because most authors read from their books so badly.<\/p>\n<p>I tend to avoid author readings myself because I&#8217;ve seen too many authors make basic, embarrassing mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>Here are five things to avoid if you&#8217;re going to read from your book, whatever the genre:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;Don&#8217;t apologize in any way.\u00a0 You may feel nervous, but you&#8217;re a performer and you have an audience.\u00a0 You need to exemplify<em> sprezzatura<\/em>: the art that conceals all art.\u00a0 Your reading should be smooth and practiced and not feel like you&#8217;re trying too hard.\u00a0 The seams should never show.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;Don&#8217;t\u00a0 read anything you can&#8217;t emotionally control.\u00a0 If a part of your book might make you cry for any reason or even get misty-eyed, avoid it.\u00a0 A reading isn&#8217;t a psychodrama.\u00a0 And don&#8217;t announce that something often leaves you teary and go ahead anyway.\u00a0 That can make an audience cringe.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;Don&#8217;t keep your eyes on your book.\u00a0 This may sound impossible, but it&#8217;s not.\u00a0 You need to study and rehearse your reading enough times so that you&#8217;re familiar with it&#8211;almost as if you were an actor.\u00a0 Then you can maintain good, consistent eye contact with your audience.\u00a0 If all you do is look down, you&#8217;ll be dull.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;Don&#8217;t get over-specific about how you and when you write, or how you wrote that book before your reading.\u00a0 People <em>do<\/em> like detail and <em>do<\/em> like to get to know the person behind the book, but they don&#8217;t need TMI.\u00a0 The book is the centerpiece, not the really gross flu you had when you were researching it.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;Don&#8217;t hog the stage if you&#8217;re on the bill with other authors.\u00a0 Time your reading more than once at home, and then trim it.\u00a0 If the organizer gives you twenty minutes, go for fifteen.\u00a0 In situations with multiple readers, less is usually more because someone else is likely to run over.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, the event isn&#8217;t all about you: it&#8217;s about your audience first and foremost.\u00a0 Think about them, plan for them, respect them, connect with them.\u00a0 They deserve your best, whether five people come to hear you, or five hundred.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/interested-audience.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" size-medium wp-image-1048 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/interested-audience-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"interested audience\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/interested-audience-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/interested-audience-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/interested-audience-450x300.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/interested-audience-275x183.jpg 275w, https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/interested-audience-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/interested-audience.jpg 1234w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><strong>Lev Raphael has done hundreds of readings on three continents, in more than one language.\u00a0 He is the author of\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Writers-Block-Bunk-Guide-Writing-ebook\/dp\/B008ZK11A0\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1435625348&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=writer%27s+block+is+bunk\"><em>Writer&#8217;s Block is Bunk<\/em> <em>(Guide to the Writing Life)<\/em><\/a> and 24 other books in genres from memoir to mystery.<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m just back from reading from my memoir\/travelogue My Germany in Windsor, Ontario.\u00a0 I was at a fundraising event for BookFest Windsor and people asking me to sign books afterwards said they enjoyed it especially because most authors read from their books so badly. I tend to avoid author readings myself because I&#8217;ve seen too &#8230; <a title=\"5 Things *Not* To Do At Your Book Reading\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/5-things-not-to-do-at-your-book-reading\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about 5 Things *Not* To Do At Your Book Reading\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[41],"tags":[308,307,292,309],"class_list":["post-1041","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-advice-for-writers","tag-audiences","tag-author-readings","tag-book-tours","tag-performing-your-book"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1041","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1041"}],"version-history":[{"count":22,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1041\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5456,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1041\/revisions\/5456"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1041"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1041"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1041"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}