{"id":2300,"date":"2016-08-29T12:04:08","date_gmt":"2016-08-29T12:04:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/?p=2300"},"modified":"2016-08-29T18:20:06","modified_gmt":"2016-08-29T18:20:06","slug":"when-you-blog-you-cant-avoid-the-lackwits","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/when-you-blog-you-cant-avoid-the-lackwits\/","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t Diss Rihanna When You Blog"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The Internet is a breeding ground for hatred: look at what&#8217;s been happening to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.inquisitr.com\/3461939\/leslie-jones-hack-and-cyberbullying-twitter-new-filter-tool\/\">Leslie Jones.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>But bloggers don&#8217;t usually deal with anything that severe.\u00a0 What they do face is the lackwits. These people can be, but mostly they&#8217;re just critical and convinced of their wisdom when what they write to you proves the opposite. They hit the keys whenever a blogger dares to criticize anything or anyone they admire&#8211;and they have standard, boring lines of attack.<\/p>\n<p>Say, for instance, that you&#8217;re not crazy about Rihanna or you <em>do<\/em> like her music but don&#8217;t think she was ready for a Video Vanguard Award.\u00a0 You\u00a0 don&#8217;t think her vids are classics and you don&#8217;t think she&#8217;s in a class with Madonna, Kanye, Brittany, and Beyonc\u00e9.\u00a0 Expect to get accused of being jealous of RiRi&#8217;s success.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/rihanna.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2316 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/rihanna-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"rihanna\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/rihanna-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/rihanna-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/rihanna-200x200.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/rihanna.jpg 529w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Now, unless you&#8217;re a pop singer, a charge like that doesn&#8217;t really make any sense.\u00a0 But even if you <em>were<\/em> a singer, why would any kind of critique necessarily mean you&#8217;re jealous?\u00a0 Can&#8217;t you have valid reasons for not admiring her body of work or thinking that maybe it&#8217;s too soon for her&#8211;at 28&#8211;to get the award?\u00a0 Does that automatically make you a hater?<\/p>\n<p>Lackwits have emailed me when I&#8217;ve blogged something remotely negative about a book, movie, or TV show, targeting me because I&#8217;m an author.<\/p>\n<p>Back at the beginning of the latest season of <em>Game of Thrones<\/em>, I blogged that I thought <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/lev-raphael\/john-snow-lives-yawn_b_9820318.html\">Jon Snow&#8217;s resurrection<\/a> was dull compared to other, more dramatic moments in other episodes. The inevitable response showed up: I was jealous of George R.R. Martin.\u00a0 Oh, and guess what?\u00a0 They had never heard of me.<\/p>\n<p>A truly devastating comment.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/frank-side-eye.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2152 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/frank-side-eye-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"frank side eye\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/frank-side-eye-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/frank-side-eye-452x300.jpg 452w, https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/frank-side-eye-200x133.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/frank-side-eye.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>And I just <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/lev-raphael\/when-a-good-review-makes_b_11637936.html\">blogged<\/a> about Michael Connelly&#8217;s <em>New York Times<\/em> review of Caleb Carr&#8217;s <em>Surrender, New York, <\/em>saying that the novel sounded unappealing as Connelly described it.\u00a0 Of course someone felt she had to charge me with &#8220;sour grapes.&#8221;\u00a0 Seriously?\u00a0 I don&#8217;t write like either one of them, never have, never will, never wanted to, and never expected their kind of career.\u00a0 .<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the thing: Most authors aren&#8217;t on best seller lists and aren&#8217;t widely known. That&#8217;s the case even for writers like me who make a good living from their royalties, get sent on book tours at home and abroad, are paid very well for speaking engagements, win awards, and have successful careers.<\/p>\n<p>Why&#8217;s that?\u00a0 Because the average reader in America only reads or listens to one book a month and there are 80,000 published every year.\u00a0 When people say that they&#8217;ve never heard of an author or charge an author with sour grapes because that person doesn&#8217;t like a book, all they do is waste an email and make themselves sound like a doofus.\u00a0 Of course, they supply bloggers with material, and novelists, too&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/hugh-laurie.gif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2148 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/hugh-laurie.gif\" alt=\"hugh laurie\" width=\"245\" height=\"160\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Lev Raphael is the author of the novel <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/German-Money-Lev-Raphael-ebook\/dp\/B004P1JERU\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1462326399&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=the+german+money+kindle\">The German Money<\/a>&#8211;which a <em>Washington Post<\/em> rave review compared to Kafka, John le Carr\u00e9 and Philip Roth&#8211;as well as 24 other books in many genres.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Internet is a breeding ground for hatred: look at what&#8217;s been happening to Leslie Jones. But bloggers don&#8217;t usually deal with anything that severe.\u00a0 What they do face is the lackwits. These people can be, but mostly they&#8217;re just critical and convinced of their wisdom when what they write to you proves the opposite. &#8230; <a title=\"Don&#8217;t Diss Rihanna When You Blog\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/when-you-blog-you-cant-avoid-the-lackwits\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about Don&#8217;t Diss Rihanna When You Blog\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[189],"tags":[725,184,183,182,756,754,667,752,755,764,753,724,763,757,762,659,760,522,759,214,761,758],"class_list":["post-2300","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blogging","tag-beyonce","tag-bloggers","tag-blogging","tag-blogs","tag-caleb-carr","tag-game-of-thrones","tag-george-r-r-martin","tag-huffington-post","tag-john-snow","tag-kanye-west","tag-lackwits","tag-lemonade","tag-madonna","tag-michael-connelly","tag-mtv","tag-new-york-times","tag-rihanna","tag-the-bloggers-life","tag-the-reviewers-life","tag-the-writing-life","tag-video-vanguard-awards","tag-writers-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2300","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2300"}],"version-history":[{"count":22,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2300\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2325,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2300\/revisions\/2325"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2300"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2300"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2300"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}