{"id":24,"date":"2014-01-29T10:16:24","date_gmt":"2014-01-29T10:16:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/?p=24"},"modified":"2020-01-18T08:23:37","modified_gmt":"2020-01-18T13:23:37","slug":"the-loneliness-of-the-long-distance-author","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/the-loneliness-of-the-long-distance-author\/","title":{"rendered":"The Loneliness of the Long-Distance Author"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve done hundreds of talks and readings from my books across the U.S. and in Canada, and in Great Britain, Germany, Austria, France, and Israel.<\/p>\n<p>When I&#8217;m picked up on tour at a train station or airport, one of the most frequent questions is a rhetorical one: &#8220;This must be pretty exciting, right?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>It is.\u00a0 I&#8217;m an extrovert.\u00a0 I love meeting new people and speaking to new groups.\u00a0 I prepare extensively for every gig I do: finding out as much as I can about the audience and venue in advance, then writing talking points, studying and rehearsing those, and practicing my reading to get it right.<\/p>\n<p>It helps that I did so much theater in college, and that I&#8217;ve taught for many years as well and feel comfortable as a performer of my own work&#8211;and my own life.\u00a0 And yet there&#8217;s always a trace of sadness, too, that&#8217;s unrelated to being away from home.<\/p>\n<p>I was recently in Marquette, Michigan, a picturesque town of about nine thousand, and my days there typify being a tourist author. I did five different talks starting with a keynote at the beautiful interfaith Holocaust memorial ceremony.\u00a0 My time there was more intense than a typical tourist&#8217;s would be.<\/p>\n<p>I got to see the area from the local standpoint because I met so many natives and so many people who&#8217;d moved there either from elsewhere in the Midwest and around the country.\u00a0 I saw the beautiful tiny synagogue in tiny Ishpeming, which has remarkable stained glass windows and feels like a spiritual jewel\u00a0 box.\u00a0 Members told me about the area&#8217;s Jewish migration patterns and gave me an in-depth look at local sites and drives.\u00a0 The beautiful downtown with its late 19th century stone buildings and churches was especially impressive.<\/p>\n<p>And I had what I always have, whatever the city or country: intense talks with people I&#8217;ll probably never see again.\u00a0 I was lucky to be there three nights, because it&#8217;s rare to spend more than one or two days on tour as an author.<\/p>\n<p>The whole experience is intense, and wonderful, and fulfilling&#8211;and then it&#8217;s over way too soon. That dynamic repeats itself over and over and over.\u00a0\u00a0 That&#8217;s one thing I never expected when I launched my career as writer many years ago: the miles it would put on me, the smiles, too, but also the sadness of random, lovely contacts that fade away&#8211;until the next tour.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; I&#8217;ve done hundreds of talks and readings from my books across the U.S. and in Canada, and in Great Britain, Germany, Austria, France, and Israel. 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