{"id":4234,"date":"2018-11-13T09:10:32","date_gmt":"2018-11-13T14:10:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/?p=4234"},"modified":"2020-01-18T10:23:51","modified_gmt":"2020-01-18T15:23:51","slug":"sometimes-planning-a-trip-is-almost-as-good-as-going","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/sometimes-planning-a-trip-is-almost-as-good-as-going\/","title":{"rendered":"Sometimes Planning a Trip is Almost as Good as Going"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been lucky over the years to travel abroad extensively on book tours, but primarily for research or just for fun. I&#8217;ve been to France, Belgium, England, The Netherlands, Italy, and Germany many times.<\/p>\n<p>My French and German are good, my Dutch passable, and I can manage &#8220;travel Italian&#8221; though I know my accent needs work.<\/p>\n<p>Many of these trips fulfilled dreams. I&#8217;d always hoped to one day teach abroad and I wound up with a six-week gig in London where the museums blew my mind and I fell in love with the Pimlico neighborhood I was staying in. For years I&#8217;d fantasized about visiting Bruges in Belgium and my week there doing research forr a book was unbelievably fulfilling. The food, the historical sites, the museums and churches surpassed my expectations. Oh, and then there&#8217;s the beer. I tried local varieties but also beers I&#8217;d had at home in bottles, this time they were on tap and tasted so much better. In Bruges I felt like Charles Ryder in <em>Brideshead Revisited<\/em>: drowning in honey.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d spent some time studying Dutch before my trip and found it really made a difference doors when shopping or ordering food or chatting with the B&amp;B owner.\u00a0 I ahd somehow even picked up a word for &#8220;amazing&#8221; that the owner, from the French part of Belgium didn&#8217;t know: <em>verbazingwekkend<\/em>.\u00a0 When I used it, she was delighted.<\/p>\n<p>As backup, my French was very handy and I once even found myself asking directions in German from someone whose accent in Dutch made it very clear where he was from.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve had that same feeling of bliss elsewhere. Like standing on a bridge in Paris at night my first evening there with my beloved spouse, gazing at the buildings glowing with light and watching <em>bateaux mouches<\/em> glide down the river.\u00a0 Once, through some scheduling mix-ups on one German tour, I ended up with something rare: free time. It happened to be in Munich and I actually had two entire days there for tourism, slow, fantastic meals in a number of restaurants, and a whole afternoon at the Nymphenburg palace and grounds.<\/p>\n<p>There was a time I thought I might be teaching in Sweden, so along with studying Swedish (which I loved), I spent months researching sites across the southern part of the country for myself and whoever my students would be.\u00a0 I read deeply about Swedish history and customs, tried out my Swedish on a friend with Swedish family and even studied a Swedish art song in my voice lessons.<\/p>\n<p>The trip fell through for complicated reasons, but I&#8217;d been so immersed in what might be happening, watched so many videos, it felt as if I&#8217;d actually been there.\u00a0 For a whole year and a half, I was dedicated to the idea of being in Sweden for a month and a half, and when it didn&#8217;t happen, I somehow wasn&#8217;t as disappointed as I expected to be.\u00a0 The same thing has happened with trips to Nice and other cities where I had tremendous fun just planning: studying everything from train schedules to walking tour maps and restaurant menus.\u00a0 When I plan a trip, I buy books, watch travel videos, study the destination in depth and the immersion is all-consuming.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s said that the journey not the arrival matters, but sometimes, for me, the journey doesn&#8217;t get father than my iPad&#8211;and that&#8217;s fine.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>How about you?\u00a0 Have you ever felt like this about a trip that didn&#8217;t happen?<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Lev Raphael teaches creative writing workshops at <a href=\"http:\/\/writewithoutborders.com\/\">writewithoutborders.com<\/a>.\u00a0 He is a member of the North American Travel Journalists Association.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been lucky over the years to travel abroad extensively on book tours, but primarily for research or just for fun. I&#8217;ve been to France, Belgium, England, The Netherlands, Italy, and Germany many times. My French and German are good, my Dutch passable, and I can manage &#8220;travel Italian&#8221; though I know my accent needs &#8230; <a title=\"Sometimes Planning a Trip is Almost as Good as Going\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/sometimes-planning-a-trip-is-almost-as-good-as-going\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about Sometimes Planning a Trip is Almost as Good as Going\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1172,823,865,828,1344,1424,339,1343,1325,785,1616,837,1614,450,1618,1485,1619,1346,1615,341,1617,829,1009,1026],"class_list":["post-4234","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-traveltuesday","tag-belgium","tag-book-research","tag-bruges","tag-dutch","tag-england","tag-france","tag-french","tag-german","tag-germany","tag-italy","tag-london","tag-munich","tag-museums","tag-nice","tag-paris","tag-sweden","tag-swedish","tag-the-netherlands","tag-travel","tag-travel-abroad","tag-travel-writing","tag-vacations","tag-western-europe"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4234","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4234"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4234\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5528,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4234\/revisions\/5528"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4234"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4234"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.levraphael.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4234"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}